Life Planning Gems

"A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder."
~Thomas Carlyle






"The best way to predict your future is to create it."

~Abraham Lincoln 







"Goals setting is goal getting. The more you set the more you get"
~Mark victor Hansen




"It's not about how to achieve your dreams. It's about how to lead your life. If you lead your life the RIGHT WAY, the karma will take care of itself. The dreams will come to you."
(Karma = desired results, destiny, good fortune, good luck)

~Dr. Randy Pausch

“My dreams are worthless, my plans are dust, my goals are impossible. All are of no value unless they are followed by action.”

~Og Mandino

“True wealth is of the heart--not of the purse.”

~Pathros

"Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm."

Ralph Waldo Emerson

"My interest is in the future because I'm going to spend the rest of my life there."

~Charles Kettering

                 
    True independence and freedom can only exist in doing what's right."
Brigham Young

"Right is right, even if everyone is against it, and wrong is wrong, even if everyone in for it."

~William Penn

"Treat others the way you want to be treated."
~Golden Rule

"The faculty of imagination is the great spring of human improvement."
Dr. Maxwell Maltz

"Live out of your imagination-not your history."
Dr. Stephen R. Covey

"Your imagination and visualization processes create your future reality."

~Mark Victor Hansen

"When you fail to prepare, you are preparing to fail."
John Wooden 

"Make a life--not a living.

 ~John Wooden

"TNT is the power within you-a mental image of what you want and the faith that you can and will get it."

~Claude Bristol

"Enthusiasm moves the world."

~James Balfour

“Whatever we plant in our subconscious mind and nourish with repetition and emotion will one day become reality.”

 ~Earl Nightingale

"The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor."

Vince Lombardi

That which we persist in doing becomes easier to do-not that the nature of the thing has changed, but our ability to do has increased.
~ 
Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Goodness is the only investment that never fails."

Henry David Thoreau

"Reason often makes mistakes, but conscience never does."

Josh Billings

"The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a man's determination."

Tommy Lasorda

"A victory without honor is a great loss"

Kyle Queal

"I am, indeed, a king, because I know how to rule myself"

Pietro Aretino

"Little by Little one walks far."

Peruvian Proverb

"Conscience is our magnetic compass"

Joseph Cook

"I would prefer even to fail with honor than win by cheating." Sophocles

”Your past is not your potential.”

Marilyn Ferguson

"Goals determine what you are going to be."

Julius Erving

"The successful man is the average man, FOCUSED"

Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Our first teacher is our own heart."

Cheyenne Indian Proverb

"Thorough preparation breeds confidence"

Gerald Bell "The Carolina Way"

"Excellence is not an act but a habit. The things you do the most are the things you do the best."

~Marva Collins

"Individually we are one drop. Together we are an ocean"

Ryunosuke Satoro

"Your future is created by what you do today, not tomorrow"

Robert Kiyosaki

The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitude."

William James

"Obedience leads to true freedom."

James E. Faust

"Visualize this thing you want. See it, feel it, believe in it. Make your mental blueprint and begin."

Robert Collier

Three Fundamental Techniques 

in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want to gather honey, don’t 

kick over

the beehive.”

I think this first technique is really true all though that everyone does this at a point, but some people don’t need to criticize others by the way that they look ...if those people who criticize others don’t like it when people talk about them they should stop. Usually mostly everyone that I know complains about many things either the phone food, places they don’t like,etc…

Technique 2: Give honest and 

sincere 

appreciation

"The big secret in dealing with 

people"

 I think what this technique is trying to say is that 

By being honest many people will respect you and will be honest with you too. I can assure you that many people would not like to be lied to every time. I believe that one should always be honest, because you would want others to do the same to you. Not only does honesty bring you truthful things in life like friends, but it can absolutely help you out in the future. When you give sincere appreciation people will automatically see you as a great loving person. By being sincere to others they will take you more seriously especially towards your feelings. This will not only show others how truthful you are, but it will also show others how loving and caring you are.For example, when I see others that truthfully need help I gladly help them and tell them what they can do and not do. By doing this I show the other person how caring I am. It also shows the person how I'm not selfish, and they actually count on me.In conclusion, one should always be honest and sincere because you  have a better chance in getting a friend just like that.

Technique 3: Arouse in the other

 person an

 eager want.

"He who can do this has the whole 

world 



with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."

Reflection: I think that this technique is trying to tell 

us that  This means that you should always try to show others how determined and competitive you are. You should show others you actually try a lot for your work. By doing so one can see how eager  you are and many would start to admire you. It is always best for one to show others how what strong ethics you have, instead of showing others your weak spot. If you don't show others how eager you are and you show them your weak side, I can assure you that they'll take advantage of the weak spot.For example, when I'm in class I always try to arouse and be more outstanding than others; not in a negative way but simply to be good at something others are or many not. Out in the real world you mostly have to compete with others in order to get what you want. Once you start to think about it you see how much you have to arouse from others. Like universities, work positions, 




Final Reflection:

Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the

 "The Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People".

  Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write how you

will apply the Three Fundamental Techniques".